Romantic Relationships Reinvented

Unlocks smarter matchmaking. IRIS Dating’s algorithm learns who excites you and who you excite, then serves only selfie-verified partners, so every chat begins with mutual pull and clear purpose—exactly what romantic relationships need to grow strong from day one.

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Systems For Spark

Founder story: Frustrated by apps measuring success in left swipes, IRIS creator Igor, a PhD who studied visual cognition, built AttractionDNA™ to predict mutual attraction scientifically. Beta tests revealed couples formed fewer ghosted chats compared with leading apps. Instead of scanning endless grids, you train IRIS once, then receive a curated list tailored to your preference graph. Every suggested match is selfie-verified and statistically likely to like you back, so time shifts from filtering to learning whether values align. The process brings goal-oriented clarity that high-performers love, replacing randomness with repeatable habits that compound toward fulfilling romantic relationships.

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AttractionDNA™ Forecast

IRIS analyses micro-expressions from your training swipe and from millions of user interactions to forecast mutual attraction probabilities. When the probability breaches a high threshold, the profile appears with a subtle Confidence banner. This data-driven indicator feels like having a personal coach signaling green lights, removing hesitation and doubling the likelihood you press send. Users describe conversations as more focused because both parties enter with confirmed interest, creating momentum essential for building durable romantic relationships.

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Daily Match Cap

Unlimited options erode resolve. IRIS limits you to a small batch of high-probability matches each day, preserving decision energy. This cap mimics deliberate practice sessions: short, purposeful, and therefore effective. With less noise, you craft better messages, remember details, and notice compatibility patterns faster. Early adopters report arranging first dates in half the time compared to swiping platforms, proving scarcity fuels focus and accelerates meaningful romantic relationships. Plus, evenings once spent scrolling transform into projects or actual dates, compounding life satisfaction alongside love.

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Progress Analytics

IRIS offers private analytics that track response times, conversation depth, and date frequency, revealing actionable trends. Maybe jokes land better at night, or photographers reply faster than accountants; you’ll see the data and adjust. These feedback loops turn dating into an experiment you can optimize, reducing emotional noise. Armed with metrics, you iterate toward healthier romantic relationships, guided by evidence instead of guesswork. Over time, small tweaks stack like micro-habits, steadily raising match quality and lowering uncertainty.

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Growth-Mindset Prompts

Every morning IRIS sends a growth-mindset prompt tailored to your conversation history: suggest a vulnerability share, propose a collaborative goal, or invite reflection on yesterday’s wins. These nudges harness behavioral science to deepen intimacy incrementally. Instead of stagnating after week two, the relationship keeps evolving, echoing continuous improvement loops that drive successful careers. Couples report higher satisfaction after two months, crediting the prompts for sustaining novelty. By reframing dating as teamwork, IRIS keeps romantic relationships dynamic and future-focused long after the honeymoon phase.

Quality Beats Quantity

Swipe apps equate big numbers with opportunity, yet research shows excess choice stifles commitment. IRIS trims the pool, verifying identities and confirming attraction before you ever read a bio. Instead of twenty half-hearted chats, you nurture two high-intent conversations, investing effort where it matters. Depth replaces volume, and users exit the app sooner—not from fatigue but because romantic relationships flourish in focused space. Attention becomes a resource, not a casualty.

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What people say

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Trent Silvernail

I've been on Iris for eight months and had a better experience getting matched on here compared to other apps. Deleted all the others and kept just Iris. Since it is still a new app, I had to be patient as more people have signed up. Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years!

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Chi

Hi! I just wanted to let you know because of your app I have a valentines date tonight! Thank you so much, I really like the way your app is built. And the interface is very user friendly and unique.

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Rico

I'm writing this message more to vent and really advise overall. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Iris. For probably three years now. Out of all of the companies who operate a dating app, Iris's business model and mission statement is more holistic and comforting. So I felt safer here.

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Clyde

Just seeing the things you guys do for your customers, i have to say im personally impressed. Something like this, something rare that makes people feel as though others ARE trying to create simpler and more efficient methods of doing things such as dating, are truly out there, blows my mind personally.

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Joe Makela

Looking for a great app to find the love of your life? This is it! It uses stock photos to find your "type" then any person you may like has been verified to be real because they use selfie verified profiles! It's the best dating app I have come across!

Frequently Asked Questions

Iris uses advanced AI to analyze your preferences and behavior. Instead of relying on basic filters, our system learns what you find attractive by observing your interactions with profiles. This creates more meaningful matches based on genuine chemistry.

Iris offers both free and premium features. The free version includes basic matching and messaging capabilities. Our premium subscription unlocks additional features like advanced filters, unlimited likes, and priority matching.

Your privacy is our top priority. We use selfie verification to ensure authentic profiles, implement strong data encryption, and never share your personal information with third parties. You have full control over your profile visibility and can delete your data at any time.

Unlike traditional dating apps that rely on basic filters and endless swiping, Iris focuses on genuine attraction and chemistry. Our AI learns your preferences through behavior, not just stated interests, leading to more meaningful matches and better conversations.

Training Iris is the first step to personalized dating recommendations. Our AI focuses on facial features while being blind to skin color, race, hairstyle, and clothes. When you create an account, you'll train Iris by rating stock photos to help it understand your preferences.

The key to optimal training is balance: while enough 'High' ratings are essential, being overly generous can dilute the specificity of your type. Being too selective can prolong the process. Once trained, Iris continuously learns from your interactions to improve recommendations.

Claim Your Focused Love

Download IRIS today and claim romantic relationships engineered for mutual attraction and steady growth instead of screen time.

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