Choose Spark Wisely

IRIS decodes the difference between simply dating and building a relationship by scoring mutual attraction, future compatibility, and readiness signals in real time. Know when casual chat should evolve into commitment and meet matches who align with your goals without guesswork.

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Beyond Swipes

Modern apps blur the line between casual dating and relationship intent, leaving hearts confused. IRIS clears that fog with neuroscience metrics that detect long-term potential in the first few seconds of interaction. Our algorithm weighs shared attachment styles, communication tempo, and micro-expressions linked to oxytocin release, then tags each match with a Relationship Readiness Index you can see only after mutual interest. Daily reflection prompts invite you to define priorities—adventure, stability, family—so the system learns who should stay a chat buddy and who deserves deeper investment. Less second-guessing, more aligning of expectations, and a path that turns dating into meaningful partnership.

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Readiness Index

IRIS’s Readiness Index combines attachment style surveys, engagement consistency, and expression analysis to forecast a partner’s openness to commitment. You’ll see an intuitive meter—casual, exploring, or relationship-ready—once chemistry is confirmed. This early insight prevents mismatched expectations, saving you from ‘what are we?’ conversations and guiding you toward people who want the same chapter you do. Beta users report that the feature reduces premature break-offs by 37% and increases date satisfaction scores across the first month.

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Values Mapping

Swipe culture fixates on looks; IRIS maps your top five life values—growth, family, adventure, health, or impact—and pairs you with users whose prioritized stack complements yours. During chat, the system nudges discussion prompts around those values, turning small talk into purposeful discovery. Users say the exercise ignites deeper conversation three times faster than ordinary icebreakers and filters out incompatible matches before feelings get complicated. That translates into fewer mixed signals and clearer next steps for both sides.

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Micro-Expression Match

Subtle eyebrow raises and lip purses reveal attraction long before words. Using camera opt-in during short video calls, IRIS measures dozens of these micro-expressions, then cross-references your patterns with your partner’s to predict relationship success over six weeks. Insight cards explain dominant signals in plain language, turning abstract science into dating intuition you can feel. Couples who lean on this feedback often report earlier exclusivity talks and a deeper sense of being understood. Science turns feelings into clarity.

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Future-Vision Timeline

After a week of messaging, IRIS’s Future-Vision feature compiles your combined data—schedule overlap, travel habits, emotional tone—and sketches a hypothetical three-month relationship timeline: key milestones, potential friction points, and playful date ideas to sustain novelty. Seeing the path ahead helps both partners decide whether to accelerate, redefine, or gracefully part ways. This predictive glance eliminates months of uncertainty and fosters conversations mature relationships usually avoid until it’s too late. Clarity replaces anxiety, and choice feels empowered.

Spark Beats Scroll

Where most apps chase endless engagement, IRIS measures success by how quickly you can delete the app—with a partner. By focusing on chemistry readiness markers instead of vanity metrics, we turn dating sessions into concise missions that end with real dates, not drained thumbs. You’ll gain time, insight, and someone who shares your relationship vision within weeks, not seasons. That’s scroll liberation, scientifically engineered for modern hearts.

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What people say

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Trent Silvernail

I've been on Iris for eight months and had a better experience getting matched on here compared to other apps. Deleted all the others and kept just Iris. Since it is still a new app, I had to be patient as more people have signed up. Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years!

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Chi

Hi! I just wanted to let you know because of your app I have a valentines date tonight! Thank you so much, I really like the way your app is built. And the interface is very user friendly and unique.

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Rico

I'm writing this message more to vent and really advise overall. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Iris. For probably three years now. Out of all of the companies who operate a dating app, Iris's business model and mission statement is more holistic and comforting. So I felt safer here.

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Clyde

Just seeing the things you guys do for your customers, i have to say im personally impressed. Something like this, something rare that makes people feel as though others ARE trying to create simpler and more efficient methods of doing things such as dating, are truly out there, blows my mind personally.

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Joe Makela

Looking for a great app to find the love of your life? This is it! It uses stock photos to find your "type" then any person you may like has been verified to be real because they use selfie verified profiles! It's the best dating app I have come across!

Frequently Asked Questions

Iris uses advanced AI to analyze your preferences and behavior. Instead of relying on basic filters, our system learns what you find attractive by observing your interactions with profiles. This creates more meaningful matches based on genuine chemistry.

Iris offers both free and premium features. The free version includes basic matching and messaging capabilities. Our premium subscription unlocks additional features like advanced filters, unlimited likes, and priority matching.

Your privacy is our top priority. We use selfie verification to ensure authentic profiles, implement strong data encryption, and never share your personal information with third parties. You have full control over your profile visibility and can delete your data at any time.

Unlike traditional dating apps that rely on basic filters and endless swiping, Iris focuses on genuine attraction and chemistry. Our AI learns your preferences through behavior, not just stated interests, leading to more meaningful matches and better conversations.

Training Iris is the first step to personalized dating recommendations. Our AI focuses on facial features while being blind to skin color, race, hairstyle, and clothes. When you create an account, you'll train Iris by rating stock photos to help it understand your preferences.

The key to optimal training is balance: while enough 'High' ratings are essential, being overly generous can dilute the specificity of your type. Being too selective can prolong the process. Once trained, Iris continuously learns from your interactions to improve recommendations.

Define Your Path

Download free and let IRIS reveal where each match stands on the dating-relationship spectrum—before emotions run wild.

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