Unlocks inclusive matching for modern love: IRIS Dating analyzes your unique attraction spectrum, then surfaces selfie-verified singles and couples open to poly relationships, guiding conversations toward boundaries, consent, and sparkâlong before calendars fill with joyful, overlapping date nights.
Science-pedigree hook: Relationship researchers at Kinsey Institute note that open couples report equal or higher satisfaction when clear agreements exist. IRIS builds on that insight by pairing its mutual attraction engine with robust orientation tags and consent prompts. When writer Jules trained IRIS, the algorithm suggested Cam and Priya, a selfie-verified couple seeking an additional partner. Before matching, everyone reviewed non-monogamy preferences like time hierarchy and safer-sex routines. Their first meetup involved collaborative boundary drawing on café napkins, followed by a trivia night that turned into shared playlist exchanges. IRISâs transparency tools keep communication flowing, transforming poly relationship logistics into possibilities instead of pitfalls.
IRIS collects your facial reaction data and aligns it with body-positive orientation fields, ensuring every match reflects both attraction and openness signals. Because each party has already indicated interest in similar poly structures, you skip the usual 'convince or educate' phase and dive into discussing date ideas, STI testing cadence, or love-language overlaps. The matrix pinpoints spark intersection, saving emotional labor and replacing hesitation with excitement for consent-driven exploration for all hearts at the table.
Before chat begins, IRIS offers optional consent checklists covering communication cadence, safer-sex protocols, and emotional aftercare. Each participant can edit or accept suggestions, creating a living agreement that updates as feelings evolve. Because expectations are visible, misunderstandings plummet and curiosity thrives. The prompts turn potentially awkward talks into collaborative design, letting you celebrate autonomy while verifying shared respect. Itâs like having a relationship coach quietly highlighting margins, not writing the script for you âexactly how growth-minded love should start.
Poly life can feel like playing Tetris with feelings. IRIS integrates optional scheduling links that show availability windows without revealing full calendars, helping partners coordinate one-on-one or group dates stress-free. Color-coded reminders nudge check-ins after big evenings, and collective photo albums let memories grow without secrecy. The logistics assist frees mental space for adventureâusers report spending less than five minutes planning the next meetup and more hours savoring shared sunsets under starry skies together every month.
As your constellation grows, IRIS adapts activity ideasâfrom board-game nights comfortable for triads to weekend hikes perfect for metamour introductionsâbased on collective feedback and ongoing chemistry signals. Each suggestion includes a quick note on how to respect individual attention and group dynamics, making transitions feel intentional, not improvised. The iterative model keeps excitement alive while honoring boundaries, turning poly relationship building into an evolving, heartfelt journey instead of a balancing act for everyone involved every step forward.
Swipe storms blur feelings in any relationship style, but they can be especially draining in poly circles. IRIS cuts through feed overload by spotlighting only mutually attracted, consent-aligned profiles each day. Less scrolling means more presence at dinner tables, more laughter during group outings, and clearer emotional bandwidth for every partner. Sparkânot endless scrollingâpropels momentum and keeps all connections glowing with shared intention for seasons to come.
Get the AppI've been on Iris for eight months and had a better experience getting matched on here compared to other apps. Deleted all the others and kept just Iris. Since it is still a new app, I had to be patient as more people have signed up. Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years!
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I'm writing this message more to vent and really advise overall. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Iris. For probably three years now. Out of all of the companies who operate a dating app, Iris's business model and mission statement is more holistic and comforting. So I felt safer here.
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Looking for a great app to find the love of your life? This is it! It uses stock photos to find your "type" then any person you may like has been verified to be real because they use selfie verified profiles! It's the best dating app I have come across!
Iris uses advanced AI to analyze your preferences and behavior. Instead of relying on basic filters, our system learns what you find attractive by observing your interactions with profiles. This creates more meaningful matches based on genuine chemistry.
Iris offers both free and premium features. The free version includes basic matching and messaging capabilities. Our premium subscription unlocks additional features like advanced filters, unlimited likes, and priority matching.
Your privacy is our top priority. We use selfie verification to ensure authentic profiles, implement strong data encryption, and never share your personal information with third parties. You have full control over your profile visibility and can delete your data at any time.
Unlike traditional dating apps that rely on basic filters and endless swiping, Iris focuses on genuine attraction and chemistry. Our AI learns your preferences through behavior, not just stated interests, leading to more meaningful matches and better conversations.
Training Iris is the first step to personalized dating recommendations. Our AI focuses on facial features while being blind to skin color, race, hairstyle, and clothes. When you create an account, you'll train Iris by rating stock photos to help it understand your preferences.
The key to optimal training is balance: while enough 'High' ratings are essential, being overly generous can dilute the specificity of your type. Being too selective can prolong the process. Once trained, Iris continuously learns from your interactions to improve recommendations.
Download IRIS Dating today and meet partners ready to build an ethical, attraction-driven poly relationship rooted in honesty and joy.
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