Couples Spa Reimagined

IRIS Dating reimagines the couples spa tradition by learning your attraction profile in a minute, matching you with someone who melts at the same aromatherapy notes, then guiding you both to verified day spas where chemistry floats like eucalyptus steam.

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Why Spa Dates Matter

Trend hook: Wellness weekends are booming— bookings for couples spa packages jumped last season while swipe fatigue did too. Enter IRIS Dating. The moment you train our AI, it maps your AttractionDNA™ and pairs you with a partner who treasures shared pampering. Couples spa seekers now skip endless searching. Within minutes IRIS verifies both profiles, suggests a nearby infrared sauna or rooftop mineral pool, and even gifts a Safe-Date Checklist for seamless planning. Instead of coordinating schedules with strangers, you both arrive knowing attraction is mutual and relaxation is the agenda. Steam, sparkle, and chemistry—not endless scrolling—define your date together.

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AI Matches Massage Chemistry

IRIS’s AttractionDNA™ engine analyzes your split-second facial reactions, then cross-checks verified members who list spa rituals among their date dreams. Because the algorithm only surfaces people who already like your look and adore hot-stone serenity, first chats skip small talk and dive into favorite essential oils. You swap sauna memes, share appointment links, and anticipate soft towels instead of counting ghosted matches. The result: less planning, more pampering, and a grounded confidence that your spa date will start with instant attraction.

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Verified Retreat Partners

Live Selfie Verification weeds out profile fakes before they ever reach your match stack. Each spa-ready partner carries a trust badge, so you can split the cost of that candlelit mud bath without worrying who shows up. IRIS also flags schedule overlaps and suggests meeting windows, turning coordination into a single tap. With authenticity secured, you can focus on comparing salt-room playlists, not identity anxiety, and let anticipation rise as predictably as the jacuzzi bubbles.

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Bio Assist Sets Mood

Crafting the right pre-spa banter is easy with IRIS’s ChatGPT Bio Assist. It refreshes your profile intro to echo your love of aromatherapy and deep-tissue bliss without sounding salesy. Matches arrive primed to discuss eucalyptus blends instead of weather. Because the tool learns from your chat history, each revision feels personal, sparking deeper dialogue that lingers through steam rooms and post-massage smoothies. You get smoother intros, faster rapport, and more time to relax side by side.

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IRIS Mixers Turn Steamy IRL

Every month IRIS Mixers reserve boutique spa lounges for members to meet offline in small groups. Staff greet attendees with cucumber water, name badges, and a short mindfulness stretch to break the ice. Because everyone has passed the mutual-attraction threshold, conversations flow naturally from robe selection to favorite pressure points. You leave with potential partners already verified by chemistry and personality, plus exclusive discounts on couples massages booked on the spot. Digital sparks convert seamlessly into warm, physical unwind time.

Spark Beats Scroll

Traditional swipe apps measure success in swipes per minute; IRIS measures success in moments shared. By limiting daily matches and guaranteeing facial mutuality, we cut screen time and boost in-person warmth. In the spa context, that means fewer thumb cramps and more scented candles, transforming digital flirtations into fragrant, skin-tingling experiences before your phone can ask for another scroll, leaving minds rested altogether, and hearts happier.

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What people say

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Trent Silvernail

I've been on Iris for eight months and had a better experience getting matched on here compared to other apps. Deleted all the others and kept just Iris. Since it is still a new app, I had to be patient as more people have signed up. Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years!

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Chi

Hi! I just wanted to let you know because of your app I have a valentines date tonight! Thank you so much, I really like the way your app is built. And the interface is very user friendly and unique.

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Rico

I'm writing this message more to vent and really advise overall. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Iris. For probably three years now. Out of all of the companies who operate a dating app, Iris's business model and mission statement is more holistic and comforting. So I felt safer here.

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Clyde

Just seeing the things you guys do for your customers, i have to say im personally impressed. Something like this, something rare that makes people feel as though others ARE trying to create simpler and more efficient methods of doing things such as dating, are truly out there, blows my mind personally.

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Joe Makela

Looking for a great app to find the love of your life? This is it! It uses stock photos to find your "type" then any person you may like has been verified to be real because they use selfie verified profiles! It's the best dating app I have come across!

Frequently Asked Questions

Iris uses advanced AI to analyze your preferences and behavior. Instead of relying on basic filters, our system learns what you find attractive by observing your interactions with profiles. This creates more meaningful matches based on genuine chemistry.

Iris offers both free and premium features. The free version includes basic matching and messaging capabilities. Our premium subscription unlocks additional features like advanced filters, unlimited likes, and priority matching.

Your privacy is our top priority. We use selfie verification to ensure authentic profiles, implement strong data encryption, and never share your personal information with third parties. You have full control over your profile visibility and can delete your data at any time.

Unlike traditional dating apps that rely on basic filters and endless swiping, Iris focuses on genuine attraction and chemistry. Our AI learns your preferences through behavior, not just stated interests, leading to more meaningful matches and better conversations.

Training Iris is the first step to personalized dating recommendations. Our AI focuses on facial features while being blind to skin color, race, hairstyle, and clothes. When you create an account, you'll train Iris by rating stock photos to help it understand your preferences.

The key to optimal training is balance: while enough 'High' ratings are essential, being overly generous can dilute the specificity of your type. Being too selective can prolong the process. Once trained, Iris continuously learns from your interactions to improve recommendations.

Discover Relaxed Chemistry

Download IRIS now and book your first couples spa retreat with someone already glowing at the thought of sharing steam.

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