Redefines Anniversary Messages

IRIS Dating redefines anniversary messages by ensuring the partner reading them already shares deep attraction. With AI-suggested memory prompts and curated milestones, you’ll send lines that revisit sparks rather than scroll back through stale chats.

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Milestones Meet Magic

Founder anecdote: IRIS CEO Igor remembers forgetting an anniversary during his start-up days and vowing to build tech that safeguards romance while life stays hectic. Today IRIS Dating tracks mutual attraction data and nudges couples with anniversary messages tailored to inside jokes and first-date photos. When users Maya and Drew hit year one, the app surfaced a draft referencing their rooftop taco date and the Chemistry Badge that started it all. They tapped send, then followed with a surprise video montage the AI stitched together, turning a moment that might have slipped by into a celebration friends envied.

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AttractionDNA™ Anniversary Alerts

AttractionDNA™ doesn’t stop at the first spark; it tracks your shared journey and generates subtle anniversary alerts. A week before the date, IRIS delivers message starters that blend your earliest attraction cues with new shared interests. Because the prompts emerge from data unique to your duo, anniversary messages feel handcrafted—not copy-pasted poem lines. Couples report higher satisfaction and fewer forgotten milestones, proving that intelligent reminders keep passion current without feeling automated.

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ChatGPT Bio Assist

When words stumble, ChatGPT Bio Assist steps in. Feed the module three memories—your first dog-park laugh, that disastrous cooking night, the rooftop taco confession—and receive anniversary messages polished yet entirely your voice. The assistant stays within 280 characters, perfect for social shout-outs or private DMs. Because it runs inside the IRIS chat window, you edit together in real time, turning writing into a shared act of affection rather than a solo stress exercise today together.

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IRIS Mixers Memories

Offline celebrations amplify messages. Quarterly IRIS Mixers invite long-term couples to themed events where they recreate first dates in new settings—think rooftop taco night turned salsa-dance class. Attendees receive collectible photo strips time-stamped by the AI, which later feed anniversary message suggestions. Sharing those images in chat revives sensory memories and adds depth to upcoming milestones. The cycle keeps relationship storytelling fresh, encouraging partners to plot the next memory rather than rest on past ones.

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Visible Chemistry Badge

Each year, the Chemistry Badge flashes anew on your anniversary, reminding you both of the instant magnetism AttractionDNA™ first confirmed. The simple icon cues couples to exchange celebratory selfies and relive that electric first swipe. Members say the glow rekindles butterflies better than generic notifications, making anniversary messages feel rooted in the same data-proven spark that launched the relationship. From there, plans flow naturally—be that a reprise of date one or an epic new chapter.

Spark Beats Scroll

In a sea of anniversary filters and auto-generated cards, IRIS champions intentional sparks. Selfie verification shields trust, AttractionDNA™ curates chemistry, and smart prompts rekindle memories on schedule. Instead of scrolling for a last-minute quote, you receive tailored anniversary messages moments before they matter, then close the app to celebrate offline. Less filler, more feeling—every milestone glows brighter without algorithmic clutter all year long together again.

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What people say

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Trent Silvernail

I've been on Iris for eight months and had a better experience getting matched on here compared to other apps. Deleted all the others and kept just Iris. Since it is still a new app, I had to be patient as more people have signed up. Met a few good friends so far and the recent match... WOW! Most successful date I have had in years!

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Chi

Hi! I just wanted to let you know because of your app I have a valentines date tonight! Thank you so much, I really like the way your app is built. And the interface is very user friendly and unique.

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Rico

I'm writing this message more to vent and really advise overall. I've used Tinder, Bumble, and Iris. For probably three years now. Out of all of the companies who operate a dating app, Iris's business model and mission statement is more holistic and comforting. So I felt safer here.

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Clyde

Just seeing the things you guys do for your customers, i have to say im personally impressed. Something like this, something rare that makes people feel as though others ARE trying to create simpler and more efficient methods of doing things such as dating, are truly out there, blows my mind personally.

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Joe Makela

Looking for a great app to find the love of your life? This is it! It uses stock photos to find your "type" then any person you may like has been verified to be real because they use selfie verified profiles! It's the best dating app I have come across!

Frequently Asked Questions

Iris uses advanced AI to analyze your preferences and behavior. Instead of relying on basic filters, our system learns what you find attractive by observing your interactions with profiles. This creates more meaningful matches based on genuine chemistry.

Iris offers both free and premium features. The free version includes basic matching and messaging capabilities. Our premium subscription unlocks additional features like advanced filters, unlimited likes, and priority matching.

Your privacy is our top priority. We use selfie verification to ensure authentic profiles, implement strong data encryption, and never share your personal information with third parties. You have full control over your profile visibility and can delete your data at any time.

Unlike traditional dating apps that rely on basic filters and endless swiping, Iris focuses on genuine attraction and chemistry. Our AI learns your preferences through behavior, not just stated interests, leading to more meaningful matches and better conversations.

Training Iris is the first step to personalized dating recommendations. Our AI focuses on facial features while being blind to skin color, race, hairstyle, and clothes. When you create an account, you'll train Iris by rating stock photos to help it understand your preferences.

The key to optimal training is balance: while enough 'High' ratings are essential, being overly generous can dilute the specificity of your type. Being too selective can prolong the process. Once trained, Iris continuously learns from your interactions to improve recommendations.

Experience Milestone Romance

Download IRIS today and craft anniversary messages that honor chemistry, spark fresh adventures, and keep love stories binge-worthy every year.

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